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Post by j738085 on May 10, 2015 20:32:25 GMT
I'm a 14 year old guy just about to graduate from Jr. High. Over the last few months I reached 6 feet in height and even grew another inch to my current height of 6'1". There is one difference between being shorter than 6' and being taller than 6', girls.
While I did have girls interested in me when I was shorter than 6', as soon as I reached 6' of height the number of girls interested in me exploded. When I was shorter than 6', all the girls interested in me were my age. Now, I have a lot of girls older than me interested in me. Is being taller than 6' some sort of magic that makes girls want a guy? I'm certainly not complaining, but I'm wondering what happened. Has anyone had a similar experience or can shed some light on this?
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Post by mike6750 on May 14, 2015 9:50:42 GMT
Shed some light j738085. Your height in itself is an attraction, but it's the things that come WITH height that attract even more attention. You have more confidence, and tend to be charismatic. You tend to have a more attractive figure, with longer legs and arms, which help you to be better in sports. If your better in sports, you will play more and build muscle tone. If there is Some extra fat there is more places to distribute it over a longer body. also at 14, perhaps this is just the start of a growth spurt...How long is your inseam, and foot size? Hope this was helpful.
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Post by Captain Tall on May 14, 2015 21:44:18 GMT
Cosign what mike6750 said.
A lot of women (maybe even most) like a man that will take charge and physically dominate her. Being tall tends to communicate that you are such a man to women. If your personality also communicates that there's a lot of women who will be interested in you. It seems like that is the case.
If your experience ends up similar to mine, then women aren't going to stop pursuing you. I'm married, and my wife is pregnant with our first child. That hasn't stopped women from propositioning me. In fact, after it became common knowledge that my wife was pregnant, there was a bit of an uptick.
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Post by j738085 on May 16, 2015 16:43:06 GMT
mike6750Inseam is 36" and my shoe size just went up to 14. It is possible that I may be beginning a growth spurt. That would be cool. So a combination of being tall, confidence, charisma, and muscles is catnip to women? Makes sense. @captain Tall How tall are you?
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Post by Captain Tall on May 17, 2015 16:59:18 GMT
I'm 6'6". When I was your age I was only 5'6", you have the benefit of being taller at younger ages. I didn't have your experiences with women until I was a couple of years older than you. To add to what I said before, here is an article at The Frisky that might help at bit. The author is into spanking and being dominated more than most women you will probably encounter, so it's only helpful to a degree. Here is what I think is the relevant except for you: Then I dated Jason* after college and, through my relationship with him, I learned that it wasn’t just spanking that turned me on, it was dominance. Jason was over 6-feet-tall, strong and sturdily built. He had a naturally dominant personality. He could be fearless and decisive. He could be a leader. He could be stern and take charge when he needed to. He was protective. And he spanked me and dominated me in bed all the time, of course. But outside of bed, which was starting to feel like catnip in this new, weird way, I always felt “safe” with him because of the way he took charge.I don't know you, but it seems like a lot of this (minus the spanking part) could describe you. If it does, then these are the types of feelings you are generating in women, even women older than you. That's why so many women, including women older than you, are begging for your company.
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Post by mike6750 on May 18, 2015 13:55:07 GMT
J738...: I am 5"11" adult with a 30" inseam. While at this point you are only 2" taller than me your legs are 6" taller as your waist would be that much higher. Your wingspan, and the hands and feet ate huge compared to mine. If you have good looks you could model. So if you play in sports and don't think your that much taller than someone, compare some of the other stats that could make you come out ahead. QUESTION: Have you used your new size to intimidate any older dudes, perhaps a friends older brother who was hassling you? I always envied kids at this age as I was only about 5'2" and relatively squat. Kids at your size liked to push me around, even if it was playful, as I was such a contrast to them.
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Post by j738085 on May 25, 2015 15:16:09 GMT
Yes, I have used my size to intimidate older dudes. Here's something that happened just a couple of days ago. A friend of mine has a brother who just finished his junior year of college who came home for a visit. When we were younger, he used to brag to my friend, me, and our other friends about how tall and strong he was. We found this intimidating because he was a lot taller than us. In reality, he was only 5'9"/5'10", but we didn't know better because he seemed huge to us. His height advantage was purely due to his being several years older than us.
I was over at my friend's house when his older brother was at home. When I saw him, all my memories about him bragging about his size came back. Now, I understand that he's short, and I towered over him. I decided to let him have it. I made fun of his (lack of) height and size. I told him how I was in a growth spurt and soon would make him look like a midget. I pretty much said all the things he said to my friends and me to him. My friend was watching this and loved it. He's still an inch shorter than his older brother so he hasn't been able to turn the tables yet. He probably will be able to be soon, and he's looking forward to it.
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Post by mike6750 on May 27, 2015 14:04:55 GMT
J38...: Cool: You sure you ONLY did a verbal on him! When I dealt with kids your size and age, I was a 5'6" HS Junior. I had seen dudes put their huge foot over mine...Long arm stiff with their huge hands on my shoulder, immobilization, tripping, pushing, etc. As much as you are taller than them, the difference in your waist height and wingspan is even more dramatic! Being so small, and non-athletic, encouraged ALL early growth spurt "giants" to demonstrate their dominance over me me, at least once.
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Post by j738085 on May 29, 2015 2:37:42 GMT
Mike, yes more happened, but I don't want to talk about it publicly. I'm sending you a message. I'm willing to do the same for anyone else that's interested.
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Post by mike6750 on May 31, 2015 0:27:34 GMT
Imagine your friends brother was only 5"6". You would have outgrown me BEFORE your growth spurt!
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